Hey, It’s Me Again!
Hey everyone! Long time no talk. I’ve been MIA since the end of summer 2023; kids back in school, work has been working me, and life has been lifeing. So, as some of you may know, I’ve been dealing with alopecia for a while now. It’s been a journey, to say the least. I’ve had hair, then lost it, then had it again, and then lost it again. By mid-October 2023, I was exhausted with the hair that I was hanging on to; the hair barely hanging on, with bald spots that once grew back, but those areas were no longer filling in. I talked about it with my partner, and after assuring him that I wasn’t making an emotional decision but something I had been pondering over for a while, with my lead and his assistance, I shaved it all off. I haven’t quite mustered the courage to rock the bald look in public…for many reasons; it’s been cold (well California cold out, lol) and I’m just simply not ready. So, for now, I’m still wiggin’ it. But let me tell you, I am looking forward to the day when I can confidently step out with my bald head shining! Stay tuned for an update on my bald and beautiful journey.
Let’s Talk About My Bald and Beautiful Journey.
So, here I am, ready to share the latest update on my journey dealing with alopecia. It’s been quite the rollercoaster ride, let me tell you.
Since my last blog post, I’ve been doing some serious soul-searching and self-acceptance. I’ve had many moments of doubt and insecurities, but also moments of celebration and triumph. It’s all part of the process, my friends.
While I’m still wiggin’ it for now, I’ve made significant progress in embracing my baldness… at least inside my home with my family; my comfort zone, and safe space. I’ve always experimented with different wigs and styles, finding what makes me feel comfortable, confident, and closest to me. During this process, I opened up an online wig boutique for those wanting wigs for various reasons, whether due to circumstances or fashion. It has allowed me to learn more about the business, and watch YouTube videos to trial and error of self-wig installation.
I’ve also discovered a fantastic community of people, just like me, who are navigating the ups and downs of alopecia. Connecting with them and hearing their stories has given me so much strength and inspiration.
Stay tuned for more updates on my journey, as I continue to embrace and celebrate my bald and beautiful self. Let’s rock this baldness together!
Bald Influencers You Should Follow:
I’ve become a fan of some amazing and beautiful bald ladies, baldies by choice or nature. These women embrace all of themselves from being bald to a buzz cut to playing around with braids, weaves, wigs, and everything in between.
Here’s a list of some bald beauties to follow on Instagram:
@jadapinkettsmith (well, duh! Actress and Author who shed light on Alopecia on her FB show and from a controversial 2022 Oscar Award show)
@lupitanyongo (Academy Award-winning actress)
@gracebol (South Sudanese fashion model)
@_dashlopez (Model, Content Creator, and Podcast Host)
@baldandboujee (Blogger)
@lacedbylacey_ (Makeup Artist/Hairstylist)
@taj.mahaly (Esthetician)
@shortcut_beauty_ (Hair influencer, Pilates instructor and real estate investor)
@thatbaldchic (Alopecian Beauty)
@lyric_christian (Artist)
Wig Glamour: A Fun Twist on Self-Expression
Exploring the world of wigs has been an exciting part of my alopecia journey. From sleek bobs to wild curls, each wig is a chance to showcase a different side of my personality. Experimenting with colors and styles, I feel like a chameleon, effortlessly adapting my look to suit my mood. Wearing a wig is not about hiding, but about embracing another facet of my beauty. It’s a fun and glamorous accessory that allows me to express myself in creative ways. While I am proud of my natural beauty, freckles and all, I have always been a glamour gal who loves make-up and hair versatility, from natural hair to weaves, braids, goddess locs, and wigs. Even though it was an emotional ride for me to accept having to wear wigs not by choice, but through tears — good, bad, and great wigs — I have truly learned to embrace them as a part of my daily life. I am more comfortable with curly wigs close to my texture while mixing them up with some straight wigs, have a body wave, are generally my natural color, and at times have a good honey blonde color thrown in there. I want to explore stepping out of my comfort zone and trying short wigs with bold colors like blue and pink.
So why not add a little wig glamour to your self-care routine and let your inner diva shine through?
Finding Strength in Vulnerability
As we navigate the twists and turns of alopecia, we discover that vulnerability holds a unique power. It’s in our moments of raw authenticity that we truly shine. By embracing our journey with grace, we find strength in our perceived weaknesses. Each day, we move forward with unwavering resilience, knowing that our bald heads and glamorous wigs are symbols of our courage. Sharing our stories is therapeutic for ourselves and others. Let’s celebrate the beauty of vulnerability and continue to embrace our journey with a newfound sense of empowerment. Together, we are unstoppable!
Wrapping Up My Bald and Beautiful Journey
I can’t believe it’s already time to wrap up my bald and beautiful journey. It feels like just yesterday that I started this blog to share my experiences with alopecia and connect with others who are going through the same thing. It’s been an incredible journey of self-discovery, resilience, and embracing my true beauty.
Throughout this journey, I have learned that alopecia does not define me. It is just a part of who I am, and I have grown to love and accept that part wholeheartedly. Embracing my alopecia journey has taught me the importance of self-love and acceptance. Through the ups and downs, I’ve learned to appreciate and celebrate my uniqueness. Each day, I remind myself of my strength and beauty, despite any challenges that come my way. I exude a confidence that radiates from within. It’s incredible how this inner glow shines through, enhancing both my bald confidence and wig glamour.
I have also learned the immense power of the alopecia community. The support, understanding, and empathy I have received from fellow warriors have been invaluable.
But this journey does not end here. Even though I have come a long way, there is still much more to explore and share. I will continue to document my experiences, support others, and advocate for inclusivity and acceptance.
